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Write. Reflect. Evolve. How to unlock your best self through a journaling practice

Have you ever felt like life is too loud, too noisy or too busy that you can't even hear your own thoughts?


The hectic reality of this modern world has left me, on more occasions than I care to admit, wanting to silence everything around me and have a sweet second to listen to my mind.


When it becomes impossible or unrealistic to physically escape, I turn to journaling, where it is just me and a blank page. No judgment, no deadlines, just the freedom to explore my mind. 


First, let's go back to the basic question: what is journaling? You hear this word in YouTube videos, you read about it in blogs and magazines, and many life coaches and authors recommend it. But what does it actually mean?


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Journaling is writing down your thoughts, emotions, feelings, memories, and experiences. The intention of this practice is to help you understand and reflect on them.

Now, why should you try journaling? From personal experience, I find that it can be a powerful tool for self-discovery, growth, and transformation.


The beauty of it lies in its simplicity and freedom. You can journal however you want. There are no rules, no boundaries, no limitations. It can be as simple or as complex as you like.


If you're interested in unlocking your best self through journaling, then keep reading to learn how you can get started with this practice.


A simple guide to get started with journaling


Embrace the freedom

You have a blank page in front of you. This is the moment where you can create a space that reflects who you are.


Your journaling format is as unique as you are, so don't be afraid to experiment with different mediums like notebooks, bullet journals, loose pages, or even digital apps.


This is not a one-size-fits-all. Find what works for your personality, lifestyle, writing preferences and creativity.



Make a date with yourself

It is important to set aside a dedicated time of your day just for introspection and exploration. It doesn't have to be tedious, long or boring. Even 5 to 10 minutes can make a difference.


Remember, it is all about finding what works best for you and your lifestyle. If you can only journal once a week, then do that. If you have one hour each night to journal, then do that.


In order to grow, evolve and unlock your best self, what truly matters is that you make a commitment and follow through.



Embrace the beauty of freewriting

Let your words pour out and capture every fleeting thought, feeling, and sensation. This is a space to express your true self so don't be afraid to be vulnerable.


Remember, there's no right or wrong way to journal. There's just your way. So don't overthink it. Write whatever comes to mind, even if it seems nonsensical or random. Sometimes, the most unexpected scribbles can lead to profound insights.



Use prompts to spark your creativity

We've all been there, sitting with a pen in hand and a blank page filled with infinite possibilities. But we can't even write one word.


Sometimes, when we're tired, stressed, uninspired or blocked, it can be hard to follow through with a journaling practice. In those moments when you're feeling stuck, I suggest you use prompts to guide your writing.


You can find many prompt ideas in Pinterest, YouTube videos and even gather inspiration from songs, books and movies. You can also visit my shop to find stunning journals complete with inspiring prompts to jumpstart your journaling journey.



Unleash your creativity and embrace your uniqueness

Your journaling practice is an extension of your individuality. In it, you can infuse your interests and express your creative skills.


This is a space for exploration, so feel free to add doodles, drawings, photos, cut-outs, memories, art, or even stickers.


Remember, your journal is a reflection of you. It will grow and change as you do. Don't be afraid to experiment, get messy, and embrace the unique beauty of your soul.


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If you're ready to start journaling, grab a notebook and a pen. Let's explore four beginner-friendly and simple journaling practices that will help you transform a blank page into a world of self-reflection and self-discovery.


One-Sentence Journal

This minimalist method is ideal for those getting started with journaling. You simply write one sentence to capture your thoughts and emotions. You can choose to do a monthly, weekly or daily session to reflect on what you’re grateful for, or focus on a particular topic like self-love, personal growth or any specific interest.


Morning/Evening Pages

In this exercise, you set a time limit to write about anything and everything that crosses your mind. You can choose to do both of them or pick only one. You can adapt the length, format, and content to fit your needs and preferences. Both can help you reflect on your thoughts, process your feelings and emotions, and clear your mind.


Photo Journaling

When words fail, pictures spark inspiration. Use this practice when you’re stuck and don’t know what to write about. Find an inspiring photo (from your camera roll or from Pinterest) and write whatever comes to mind. It can be a story, a reflection, your thoughts, emotions, or any details you want to highlight.


If you’re having trouble deciding what picture to use, you can choose a specific theme like an event in your life, a trip you took, or any interests you have like art, sports, fashion, etc.


Prompt-Based Journaling

This practice is great for those who are new to journaling or for when you’re struggling to find something to write about. You can find many questions and ideas to guide your writing on sites like Pinterest.


Journaling prompts serve as a starting point. You can personalize them to fit your style and interests. They can help you explore topics, emotions, and perspectives that you might not have considered otherwise.


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Are you ready to turn down the volume and quiet the world? Take a deep breath, open your notebook, grab a pen, choose a practice, and embark on your journey of self-discovery.



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Your journal is an expression of your soul, a testament to your unique story. Journaling isn't just a trend; it's a powerful tool for evolving, transforming, and unlocking your best self, one page at a time.


The only wrong way to journal is not to journal at all.

Until next time.


Gabriela Fernández




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